Since you have landed on this page, it means you have a crush on someone and already have found a way (be it Facebook, WhatsApp, Viber, Instagram) to have a conversation with your crush. I have seen that the first motto of every geek is to exchange the phone number or social channels of his or her crush. But they are not too smart to start their chat with their crush for the first time. But do you know what are the key tips for texting your crush? As this is a social networking era, most of the folks are connected through social media or messaging apps like WhatsApp, Viber, WeChat etc. This is a good approach to texting your crush or sending a message as this is the task you can do parallelly along with your other ongoing tasks. Lots of thoughts come to mind such as- Will other reply or not? Will other get annoyed or not? And so many. But do not worry we have written an article to solve out your this problem. Learn how to impress your crush with these simple and fun flirty text message tips.
Follow these tips for texting your crush the right way
Texting is an art. It seems easy but whenever you text your crush, you have to make sure you are not looking totally weird. Not only on words, you need to focus on your smileys also that you are using while texting your crush, otherwise, it can totally destroy the good conversation.
- Text Your Crush a Simple Question
The first thing to consider is – send that message which others can reply. If you want your crush to reply to your text, you’ll have to give him or her a reason to reply in the first place. When deciding on texting your crush, your topic of choice should be relevant and not too personal. Ask a simple question about what they are up to, or ask something related to a conversation you had recently. Because sometimes you send a joke or something boring, it is more likely that she will not reply. So it is always a good approach to sending a questioning message. While it may seem like a good idea to text your crush with a simple “hey” in order to start a conversation, this kind of flirting will soon become boring and ultimately lead nowhere. Try and engage your crush in more of a conversation, and always end with a question, such as “how are you?” “guess who I saw today?” “What are your plans for the weekend” etc. in order to make them want to always text back.
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- Thinking of You
Send your crush a simple, yet effective, “I’m thinking about you ” message and they will be extremely flattered, as well as begin to think about you in return – bonus! Adding a smiley face makes it seem more friendly and relaxed.
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- Do not be serious
This is the total golden rule of texting. Keep your convo light, fun and playful so that she feels happy with you. Whenever she will be stressed or under mood, she will text you because she knows you can make her smile. Leave the serious talk for real life.
- Don’t Text Your Crush in a Row
Once you send a text, don’t send another one till you hear back. It makes them think like you are very desperate. Multiple messages in a row look very bad especially if you’re sending them to someone who isn’t already a close friend. So have patience. your crush might be busy. So let her take her time and reply whenever she is free.
- Avoid Long Texts
Make sure your text is no longer than two sentences. Anything longer comes off too strong. But also, one-word responses like “yeah,” “sure,” and “okay” are literally the worst. Put some effort into your responses and try for a full sentence.
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- Show you are funny
Being funny is actually really attractive, so if you get them to laugh it will earn you some major bonus points. I am not saying you to be Kapil Sharma to entertain your crush. Just try to be funnier. Remember that.
- Don’t let your friends text For you
Never ever let your friends text for you. After all, you want your crush to have a thing for you, not your friends. Your friend might crack a joke and it may hurt your crush since they do not know your crush, you do.
Also, proofread your words like “your” and “you’re,” or “they’re,” “there,” and “their”. Nothing more annoys then these mistakes. Don’t make these mistakes when you are texting your crush. I personally recommend using Grammarly tool to overcome this.
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- Keep the Conversation Going Until It Becomes Boring
I would suggest keeping the conversation going to a certain point. Do not just drag the conversation even if it seems boring and less enthusiastic. Get the conversation going by replying, and see where it leads you. But don’t keep things rolling just because you want. Check how your crush is texting with you. Is he or she texting you back with questions of his own? Is he/she just giving you answers and not making an effort to keep the conversation going? then this is a sign to close this conversation. If you notice him or her responding with lots of one-word answers, or if more and more time passes between texts, then hold off for the night. Your crush is sending you signals that it’s time for the conversation to be over. Do not be sad on this, it might be she is not in the good mood to text right now. Let her text you next time first 🙂
- Do Not Take Long To Respond
If you are using a social channel that shows when you have received and read the text (for example Facebook’ seen at & WhatsApp’s last seen), don’t wait a long time to answer. Otherwise, your crush might think that you don’t really care to talk, or that you’re just not interested. Take the appropriate time to think of a suitable reply and text back. Also, do not reply quickly within seconds, otherwise, you might end up looking desperate and clingy.
- Contol Your Emotions & Be Respectful
Texting is a complicated thing. It can lead to misunderstanding sometimes because you just read words, not the way and voice, how these words are being sad. Watch out your emoticons and smileys too. Do not add LOL every time. I repeat! I have seen many people having this bad habit of adding LOL, LMAO etc in every text, it just sucks. Also, while replying, be respectful and reply in polite and decent manner.
Also Read: Top 10 Signs shows Your Crush Likes You Back
- Check For Sign That They’re Not Interested
Are you always the one who texts to your crush first always- does he or she never start a conversation or text you first? That’s a sign that your crush might just be texting you out of boredom or politeness and doesn’t think of you when you’re not around. Hold off on the texts for a couple of days. Let them miss you. If you don’t hear back, you’re probably better off without them.
- Return the Call
We know sometimes it’s less awkward and more time-efficient to text your crush, however, if your crush has called you and you missed it, you must absolutely call back! Returning their call shows your equal interest in them.
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